Regina was born and raised in East Saint Louis. She was living in a single parent home along with her brother, who was physically challenged. Regina’s mother, Tanya, worked a great deal to keep the family in the modest accommodations they could afford.

Regina, at age 15, somehow saw this life as unsuccessful and frustrating. She was the oldest, and cared for her 9 year old brother Wilson. Due to Wilson’s birth defect, he had limited mobility; the bulk of the responsibility fell to Regina to see that the household chores were completed. Regina at some point became a product of her environment as she saw almost no hope of freedom from her surroundings.

Regina, if the truth be told, saw her brother as a hindrance and an “anchor” to any progress she tried to accomplish. She frequently transferred her feelings to Wilson, making him the brunt of her emotional stagnation. Wilson, however, did not absorb these outbursts. He chose to continue to be the free spirited child he had always been even though his handicap challenged him on a daily basis. Wilson had a spirit that never gave up.

Twelve months later, Regina sat with her mother at the dinner table discussing her progress in school. Her mother was extremely proud of her grades. Tanya said to Regina, “I am grateful to you for all you have done around the house, and especially all you have done for Wilson.”

Regina began to cry uncontrollably. Her mother hugged her to help subside the tears. Assuming the tears were from joy, Tanya said, “I did not mean to embarrass you.” Regina quickly replied, “You didn’t embarrass me. I just don’t know if you understand. A year ago I had given up on school. Because of watching Wilson struggling daily to accomplish basic tasks, the things I take for granted, I softened my heart. Wilson has inspired me, mom!”

Three years later on graduation day, Regina received her high school diploma. Later that day she gathered around the table to celebrate with her family. She toasted to Wilson and presented him with her diploma. With love she said, “This is just as much yours as it is mine. You gave me hope, and I love you.”

Regina would leave for Michigan State University with Wilson in her heart… Sometimes you need that special someone who inspires, and helps you along that lonesome journey.